Do you ever doubt yourself? It’s okay, you’re not alone. Even high achievers experience doubt at times. But it’s what you do with that doubt that matters. Doubt can actually be a catalyst for growth and success if you know how to harness it.
Recently, I found myself in a situation that gave me goosebumps – a high-level meeting with senior executives. I was intimidated by their profiles, and part of me wanted to back out. But instead of succumbing to my doubts, I decided to increase my preparations. I prepared as if my life depended on it, and I affirmed myself before stepping into that meeting room. And guess what? It was a success.
As I reflected on that event, I realized that high achievers are not just successful because of their genius, but because of their preparation. Have you ever seen intelligent people falter in meetings or exams? It’s often due to a lack of preparation. And what causes a lack of preparation? Overconfidence.
So, while it’s good to be confident, it’s also important to acknowledge and embrace your doubts. Doubt is not a sign of weakness, but an opportunity for growth. It means there’s still room for improvement, more to learn, and additional preparations to be made. Doubt reminds us that we don’t know everything and that we need to practice and put in effort, even if we have faith.
Dear sister, it’s okay to doubt yourself. But never give up. Instead, use your doubts as motivation to increase your preparations, learning, and legwork. Remember, every high achiever has doubted themselves at some point in their lives. Doubt is not the end of the story, but a stepping stone towards success.
So the next time you doubt yourself, take a deep breath and pat yourself on the shoulders. Say to yourself, “Hey, it’s okay to doubt. I’m not perfect, and that’s okay.” Then, identify the gaps and loose ends that need to be filled and get to work. Embrace doubt as a catalyst for growth and strive towards becoming the best version of yourself.
In conclusion, doubt is not something to be feared, but an opportunity for self-improvement. High achievers understand this and use doubt as a driving force for their success. Embrace your doubts, increase your preparations, and never give up. You have the power to overcome your doubts and achieve greatness.